#IM SORRY PARAGRAPH TO BOYFRIEND TRIAL#

By the time you get this letter, I'll already be gone. We still come back to the same thing: neither one of us can bend on the issues that are really important to us, and there are just too many crucial things that we can't see eye to eye on. The beautiful makeup episodes that always follow don't make it any better. We are the way we are: headstrong, passionate, stubborn-was it your dad who called it 'bullheaded'? Anyway, these similarities that give us our independent spirits and initially drew us together seem to be the very characteristics that always drive a wedge between us. We've tried to work things out so many times over the last year but nothing ever changes. So this time, instead of chasing after a happiness that we're just not going to find together, let's end things now, before things get worse again. I suppose that we just never were really meant to be together. Not that I'm blaming you for what happened. I know that I was the one that suggested that we try yet again to work things out and start over, but I've finally realized something: we're just not right for each other we're just not compatible. Let's try to remember the good times, let go of our present miseries, and have the common sense to move on.

You have a lot of great qualities that will serve you well in the future. I want you to know I wish you all the best. I think a year from now we will both be doing so much better that we'll probably wonder why we hadn't ended the relationship sooner. We still have happy memories from the past we need to concentrate on making the present as happy as possible and try to keep a positive outlook on the future. No solution will please everyone or solve all our problems. Even though they are adults now, I know they will find this news painful, but it was also painful for them to come to visit and find us squabbling. We still have our careers we can concentrate on and we both have friendly relationships with the children. I believe that parting now is the best thing for both us. If we cannot do that amicably, then we will have to get lawyers to sort it out. Inevitably, there will be things that mean so much to both of us that we will have to sit down together and decide who gets what. When you come home and find this letter you will also see that I have packed my things and my drawers are empty. I have moved in with an old friend until I can make other arrangements. How many times have we said we have had enough and never wanted to see each other again, only to kiss and make up, then try again? Well, someone has to be the one to say enough is enough and I am doing it now. The tension in our apartment is so thick you could cut it with a knife. The simplest problem or disagreement always gets blown up out of proportion and meaningful communication is no longer possible. It should be clear to both of us by now that we are fighting a losing battle.

#IM SORRY PARAGRAPH TO BOYFRIEND TRIAL#

We've had trial separations, gone to a marriage counselor for months, read self-help books and ordered Dr. I think we have both done everything we could and pursued every option available to try to keep this relationship together, but nothing has helped. I want you to know that I am not blaming you. It is time to call it quits and go our separate ways. We just make each other miserable instead of happy, and make life harder rather than easier.

The way things are now, we are no longer a positive influence in each other's life. Unfortunately, the years have chipped away at our once perfect relationship and there is nothing left to hold on to. There was a time when I thought our love would stand the test of time and nothing could come between us. I never thought I would be writing you this letter.

Im sorry paragraph to boyfriend